Relationships
Today I had a growing experience.
I reached out to a friend and listened.
Listened with my whole body; ears, eyes, and heart.
I listened without thinking of what I was going to say and Without Interrupting --- I know!
For anyone that knows me...that in itself was a huge leap forward.
I asked questions to clarify things she mentioned to be sure I understood her. Restated the information back to her to be sure I understood and continued to listen until she asked for my opinion. Before I gave her my response, I took a moment to gather my thoughts. Then spoke honestly.
Although, difficulty touched most of our lives in 2008 and 2009. I have used this time to improve my inner self. Taking classes and working towards a degree. I have grown more patient, calm, and more accepting of people.
I reached out to a friend and listened.
Listened with my whole body; ears, eyes, and heart.
I listened without thinking of what I was going to say and Without Interrupting --- I know!
For anyone that knows me...that in itself was a huge leap forward.
I asked questions to clarify things she mentioned to be sure I understood her. Restated the information back to her to be sure I understood and continued to listen until she asked for my opinion. Before I gave her my response, I took a moment to gather my thoughts. Then spoke honestly.
Although, difficulty touched most of our lives in 2008 and 2009. I have used this time to improve my inner self. Taking classes and working towards a degree. I have grown more patient, calm, and more accepting of people.
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